We tested this married dating website
If you haven’t heard of plenty of fish, you haven’t heard of many dating sites. PlentyOfFish is not just a site that caters to married people, it is a site that caters to anyone who is looking for love, hence the plenty of fish. The problem with this site is that it is too popular. When you get to the stage of popularity that this one is at, it is hard to be on it and still have the same anonymity. A site that has dating, hookup and married segments, you can imagine that someone you know spotting you is not that difficult. For that reason alone, we aren’t a big fan. If you are going to find someone to have an affair with, everyone on the site should be in it for the same reason and have the same “skin in the game” if you know what I mean. Therefore, one of the biggest reasons, but not the only one, that we decided not to include it into our favorites is because if you use this site you are most likely to get caught.
What is PlentyOfFish.com?
PlentyOfFish has a large population of people to choose from, but like we said that is one of the biggest downfalls of it. There are segments of the site that are allocated to singles dating, hookups and then the affair section. Too big to really specialize, we found it confusing and hard to navigate. Being that it wasn’t a site that was just for married people, it didn’t have the same way to keep things private, or just between two people that other married sites do.
Is Plenty Of Fish discreet?
The site itself had many great features. You are able to communicate and contact women using many different modes such as email, IM, chat or video chat and chat rooms to boot. Although seemingly a good thing, you just never know who is going to be seeing you online. If your wife has single friends and lo and behold you pop up, that isn’t going to make for happy talk around the dinner table. There are many ways to pay for the membership, but because it isn’t rooted in secrecy, the membership bill comes up with the site’s name. That is going to cause a lot of problems if you use the wrong credit card, or your wife catches wind of you using any credit card.
Since security is our number one concern, we were very concerned by the lack of it on this site. The good news is that it didn’t come with what the other sites did, the large amount of triple x advertising, but it did come with just enough other junk that it was irritating. Not selling your email address to sex sites, they had no problem selling it to other advertisers.
What about the women
The women on this site were of course beautiful, but they aren’t all married which posed a problem. You had to really search before finding the right one to contact. Once you did make contact with them, they had to likewise search to see what your status was. If you didn’t make it real clear, it could cause a lot of communication and expectation problems. Therefore, if you are going to use this site we recommend that you make it highly known what your current situation is and what you are looking for in finding someone else. Being clear and specific is a good idea when you are on a site that doesn’t classify for you.
PlentyOfFish offers to married people a different type of venue. Having more people to choose from is a good thing from the perspective of finding someone you consider hot, but it also ups the potential that you are going to get caught and suffer a lifetime for it. Sometimes being on a site that is more specific and caters to just married people is better to weed through the people on the other end and to ensure that you can maintain your anonymity. The whole idea of having an affair is that you don’t want your wife to find out. On this site there is a likelihood that she absolutely will.